Hi everyone! Thanks for joining me!

I realized that I never really made a post for my transition for my year after graduating from college, and the gap year I took from graduate school. I graduated from Hampton University on December 11, 2021.

My Graduation Picture

Fun fact: I celebrated my birthday (12/12/) in Dominican Republic right after graduation for a full week!

Punta Cana Resort Dominican Republic
Las Tres Ojos Santo Domingo

Another fun fact: the speaker at my graduation is also the mayor of my hometown of St. Louis, Missouri.

During the year after, I spent time working for a PR agency, and as a gate agent in training for Southwest Airlines. I also have worked as a freelance writer for Travel Noire, and as a kindergarten teacher in a charter school in Florida.

Southwest Airlines

During this time, my grandmother and grandfather I wrote about an interviewed while in Cameroon and family friend who was Hampton’s oldest living graduate also passed.

Memorial of my Grandfather
Memorial and Yearbook of Mrs Rose Rhetta

In fall 2022, I buried my grandmother back in Cameroon.

Memorial of my Grandmere

It led me to me reconnecting with my community and with my roots.

It also led to me discovering a new life, the life that I’m currently living.

My church community in Cameroon
My Journalist Friend Miss Jessie
Mall Hangout in Bonamoussadi Douala Cameroon

She passed the same day as the Queen, September 8 2022, and they passed away a year apart as well.

I was the only grandchild able to be there, so I spoke on things close to my heart and theirs regarding my future.

Please watch the video here.

Grief has been a process, and so that is why I have decided to take my time in sharing about this year of my life.

I learned about resiliency, and my ability to walk through hard seasons.

Starting grad school was difficult.

Returning back to the U.S. was hard.

But I chose to fight for the future that my grandparents wanted for me to have, and the life they wanted me to live. I’m now very grateful that I did.

Thank you for reflecting with me!

Until the next adventure,


Discover more from The Lovely Adventures of Lydia

Subscribe to get the latest posts sent to your email.

Lydia Makondo Avatar

Published by

Leave a comment

Discover more from The Lovely Adventures of Lydia

Subscribe now to keep reading and get access to the full archive.

Continue reading