Greetings everyone! Meet Javonne!

Please tell me a little about yourself and background.

I’m a California native, born and raised in Sacramento, and I’ve also had the pleasure of calling San Diego and Los Angeles home during my adult years. I hold a Bachelor’s degree in Journalism and an Associate’s degree in Communication Studies.

For the past year and a half, I’ve been living abroad in Bangkok, Thailand, where I’ve been building a new chapter of my life.

How has travel impacted your life and how has it changed you and your family life?

Although I haven’t traveled extensively in the traditional sense, living abroad has had a profound impact on my life. It’s shown me just how vast and diverse the world is, and that there are so many different ways to live beyond what I was exposed to in the U.S.

My experience in Thailand has challenged the idea that the “American way” is the default or correct way of doing things. It’s shifted my perspective on success and fulfillment, and helped me realize that life is about more than just working to make ends meet. There’s a stronger emphasis here on presence, balance, and enjoying everyday life.

It’s also taught me the importance of community. Coming from a culture that often promotes hyper-independence, I’ve had to unlearn the idea that I have to do everything on my own. I’ve learned that connection, support, and shared experiences are just as important as self-reliance.

As for my family life, traveling hasn’t significantly changed that dynamic, as I’ve always navigated these experiences independently.

How has the process of migration impacted your life?

The process of migration has been both challenging and transformative. Starting over in a new country forced me to step outside of my comfort zone in ways I hadn’t experienced before. From navigating unfamiliar systems to building a life from scratch, it pushed me to become more adaptable, resourceful, and self-reliant.

At the same time, it deepened my trust in myself. There’s something powerful about figuring things out in an entirely new environment and realizing that you’re capable of more than you thought. Overall, the experience has been a major part of my personal growth and has changed how I see both the world and my place in it.

What has been your favorite travel experience and why?

My favorite travel experience was spending two months in Guadalajara, Mexico in 2023, which was also my first time outside the U.S. It was such a meaningful introduction to life abroad. I really connected with the culture, and the food quickly became a highlight. I still find myself craving chilaquiles, tejuino, and tortas ahogadas to this day!

One of my favorite memories was experiencing the Día de Muertos parade. I was deeply moved by how Mexican culture honors loved ones who have passed, not with fear or silence, but with celebration and remembrance. It completely shifted my perspective on death and the ways it can be approached.

I also loved participating in Vía Recreactiva, a weekly program where major streets are closed off and the city comes alive with people exercising, dancing, rollerblading, and simply enjoying being outside. I even picked up hula-hooping during that time. It was powerful to witness such a strong sense of community and to see a city intentionally create space for the health and well-being of its residents.

Do you have any tips or advice for people who want to travel more? 

My biggest advice would be to start by maximizing the time you already have. If you’re working a traditional job, use your PTO strategically and take advantage of long weekends whenever possible. You don’t have to travel far for it to “count.” Even a short trip or a day trip can help break up the monotony of everyday life and give you a new perspective.

I would also encourage people not to be afraid of traveling alone. A lot of people miss out on experiences because they’re waiting for friends or family to be available, and that can hold you back more than you realize. If you want to see the world, sometimes you have to be willing to go on your own.

That said, if solo travel doesn’t feel comfortable right now, there are plenty of group trips and organized travel experiences that can make things easier. The key is to plan in a way that works for you rather than assuming travel has to look one specific way.

Why did you choose to relocate to Thailand from the US?

After an unsuccessful attempt at living in Mexico long-term, I returned to the U.S. when my money ran out. I was staying with family, trying to get back on my feet, and working part-time jobs that didn’t offer much stability or growth. I knew that couldn’t be the end of my story.

I was determined to create a different life for myself, one where I could have a better quality of life both financially and personally. I had always been drawn to Thai culture and had heard how transformative living in Thailand could be, so I began seriously exploring it as an option.

Becoming an English teacher felt like a practical and accessible pathway to make that move happen. I completed my TEFL certification online and was able to secure a teaching position shortly after.

I’ve now been living in Bangkok for a year and a half, and the experience has been incredibly grounding. I’m no longer in survival mode, and I’ve been able to build a life where I can support myself while also immersing myself in a culture that I deeply appreciate.

What are the must have packing items in your packing list?

I wouldn’t say I have an extensive packing routine, but for long-haul flights, there are a few essentials I don’t travel without. A sleep mask, neck pillow, and earplugs make a huge difference when it comes to getting rest on the plane. I also download podcasts, playlists, and shows ahead of time on Spotify and Netflix in case the in-flight entertainment options are limited.

Compression socks are another must for comfort during long flights, and I like to keep a small hygiene kit handy with things like wipes, a toothbrush, and other essentials to freshen up before landing. Also, one item I now consider non-negotiable is using AirTags in my luggage. It adds an extra layer of security and peace of mind, especially when traveling internationally.

Why do you think it’s important for women to travel?

I haven’t always viewed travel through a gender-specific lens, but I do think there’s something especially empowering about women having at least one solo travel experience.

There’s a real sense of freedom that comes from navigating an unfamiliar place on your own and learning to trust yourself in the process. It allows you to build confidence, become more self-reliant, and truly enjoy your own company without outside influence.

At the same time, I think it’s important to approach travel with awareness. Doing research on safety and understanding the cultural context of where you’re going is essential. But many women may also be surprised to find that they feel just as safe, or even safer, in certain places outside of their home country.

Overall, I see travel as an opportunity for women to expand their perspectives, challenge their comfort zones, and realize just how capable they are.

Why do you think it’s important for families to travel?

While I haven’t done a lot of traveling with family, I did have the opportunity to host my mom in Bangkok for her birthday last year, and it was a really meaningful experience for both of us. It was her first time traveling abroad, and I loved being able to introduce her to a different culture and way of life.

I think travel can be especially valuable for families because it creates shared experiences that go beyond material things. Those kinds of memories are lasting and meaningful in a way that’s hard to replicate.

Where can people follow your travel journeys?

People can follow my journeys on my YouTube channel: Javonne Jay and on Instagram and TikTok: @javonne_jay.